I am really upset with the guy who's married to my step-daughter. The lazy SOB has been off work for a year and his unemployment has run out. My wife has been helping out with the bills, but now my hours (and paycheck) have been cut back and things are getting tight. He finally got a job interview and got a job starting Monday. BUT, he is now worried that he can't pass the drug test because of a New Year's Eve party (even though he knew about the upcoming test). I think he just wants a reason to stay at home on his azz. My wife had it out on the phone (which we pay for) with her daughter, who only defends him. It wouldn't matter as much, but they have two young kids that we are really close to. I told my wife to tell him if he doesn't keep this job, I'll be over to have a talk with him next week. I don't really want to start anything, because that'll only hurt my grandkids. And they wonder why I have high blood pressure.